I have a 5yr old who will fight you so hard when it comes to taking him to time out. What is a good way to get them there without having to drag them?

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The fighting and the dragging is attention. Negative attention, but still attention. As soon as the fight starts, hands off and walk away. Period. Say “I don’t like the screaming. Come back to me when you want to behave.” and walk away.

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