Why do I feel this feeling and how to get rid of it?

Why do I feel this feeling and how to get rid of it?
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answer:This is difficult to hear and to deal with from a distance. Is there anyone close to you (physically and emotionally close) that you can talk to about these feelings? They aren’t unusual feelings, either, especially at your age. But I don’t want to dismiss your statement by saying “Oh, everyone feels like that” or “Just get out and do something to take your mind off the way you feel.” (The first might be a valid statement, and the second may be good advice, but please understand that it’s not all that I have to say to you, or not a way for anyone to responsibly handle your statement.) So… how long have you felt this way? Have you discussed this with anyone? Most important of all… are you contemplating taking any drastic actions? If you are, then I would seriously consider calling a suicide prevention number right now. I’ll be back with a number. http://suicidehotlines.com/—phone numbers for every state.
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