Why do so many families abandon their own senior family member to a rest home?

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I visit my Mother twice a week, it would be more but she just doesn’t want me bothering her, “twice a week is enough son ”! she says, “you’ve got your own life to lead”. I don’t know about other people but my own family, I’m truly ashamed of! My Mother brought four people into this world & never asked for a bean, when my father died she did it all by herself, we wanted for nothing ! Now you’d think she only had one son, where are they, you might ask! Hovering around waiting for the rich pickings, makes me sick to the stomach, they just don’t care! excuse after excuse why they can’t find the time, One day they’ll come that I’m sure of , & something else too, they’ll go away with nothing……. :-/

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