I'm 40, female, cute &fun...does a younger guy WANT me to ask him out?

I'm 40, female, cute &fun...does a younger guy WANT me to ask him out?
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answer:I’m a guy and I ask her out, though I do know from experience that sometimes a girl will ask a guy out though normally in a more elusive, indirect manner such as after hanging out I’ve been asked, “hey do you want to come over later and cook with me and a couple of friends?” (only to discover that by friends she must have meant the condoms and the pill) (I haven’t met a gal that ever directly asked a guy out, just wanna put that out there before someone says that they’re a gal or they know a gal with the confidence or initiative to ask the guy out). And welcome to fluther
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