answer:Wow, I am sorry for your losses. It seems life hit you hard. First, it appears as if you have not finished grieving. You don’t mention how long your husband has been gone. I would consider a grief and loss group. It doesn’t sound as if you have anyone to talk to. Talking out your grief is important. Next, I think that you should force yourself to volunteer. You need some perspective on life, and volunteering is a way to get you to see what others’ lives are like and to care for people again. Finally, although it may seem very hard in the place that you are now, I want you to give thanks for the blessings in your life. Like your dogs who get you to exercise—even a little. Your daughter is probably acting out due to her grief at losing her father. Losing someone when a teenager is very tough. Consider getting her into a grief support group for teens. Please hang in there. Things seem very bleak right now, but life will take an upturn if you let it. Welcome to Fluther by the way/