answer:I was like you. But I think everyone wants to be accepted – well, most people, and popularity is simply being ultra-accepted. It’s like the other question about laughing with/at someone: no-one likes to be laughed at, everyone wants to be in on a joke. Is it important to be popular? I think the question should be are you happy with yourself, and do you feel you have enough friends. If the answer is yes, then it’s fine.