answer:Probably overall by making me feel like a failure. I understand that there are countless women out there that are able to juggle everything, and many of them do a phenomenal job of doing so. Also, while keeping themselves pulled together much better than I do without half of the ambition. But, as I grow older I’ve come to accept that I am just not that person… and many of us are not. Although it is hard for me to shake the feeling that there are expectations that I feel like society insists that I meet, the harder I push myself over my own limit, the worse off the outcome ends up being.