After how long do we stop to let the deceased Rest In Peace?

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answer:Actually, “active” cemeteries are often disturbed for one reason or another. Storms – floods and mudslides most often – frequently wreck cemeteries and graves have to be relocated. Or cities change and the land is needed for a building project, in which case an entire cemetery might be moved. As for me, when I’m done with my body it can go to a landfill for all I care. And my own parents were cremated and their ashes blown to the wind, which seems entirely fitting to me. If we treated all of the Earth as consecrated because someone had once died or been buried there, we’d never take a step. I think that kind of reverence for garbage – which is what a corpse becomes pretty soon after the animating force leaves it – is perverted.

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