Do you think that the generation that started telling others to butt out of their child rearing really hurt themselves in the end?

Do you think that the generation that started telling others to butt out of their child rearing really hurt themselves in the end?
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They didn’t hurt. I think there is power in words and a positive message doesn’t hurt.
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