Do you think for young men there is a contradiction in telling teens to give up their baby for adoption and walking away from their children?

Do you think for young men there is a contradiction in telling teens to give up their baby for adoption and walking away from their children?
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The child is THE most important person here. I’m not entirely sure that I understand the question, Could you explain further?
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