answer:Huh, what’s the big deal indeed. I don’t know. If I did have a spouse, I would go to places and do things on my own, as my spouse would very be allowed to do himself, too. You can’t always be together and always do everything together. Time apart is healthy. But this does remind me of how like, everyone in Québec seems to see an invisible law; you have to have a boyfriend or girlfriend. It’s like, when you break up, your job is to get another partner. It’s like, almost the same mentality that one gets when it’s time to change tires. Nobody says it, it’s like some unspoken rule, but I sure notice it.