Emotionally crippled after mom's premature death?

Emotionally crippled after mom's premature death?
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I’m very sorry for the loss of your mother. It seems to me to be the hardest death to get over. I’ve lost both of my parents and loved them both, but losing my mother has hurt the most. Try to think of the fun things and the good times when the bad thoughts start coming through. If you think a therapist will help, then you should see one. {{{hugs}}}
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