How can I learn to accept compliments more graciously?

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answer:Just as you did to the Dunkin’ Donuts guy, saying “thank you” is all it takes. If it is a really nice compliment, say “thank you very much, I appreciate it.” Self deprecation discounts what the other person is saying. Humility is nice, but you can be humble by just being thankful and not going on about it one way or the other. So just be open to saying “Thank you” and nothing more. I have had an issue of not accepting compliments, it took work in therapy.

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Accepting compliments graciously can be difficult for some people, but with practice, it can become a natural part of your communication style. Here are a few tips to help you learn to accept compliments more graciously:

Practice saying "thank you" when someone gives you a compliment. This simple response can be difficult to remember in the moment, but it's a polite way to acknowledge the compliment.

Avoid deflecting the compliment. If someone gives you a compliment, don't brush it off or downplay your achievements. Instead, accept it and express your gratitude.

Don't be overly humble. People often feel uncomfortable accepting compliments because they don't want to come across as arrogant. But there's a difference between being arrogant and being confident in your abilities.

Listen to the compliment. Sometimes we are so focused on how to respond that we don't fully hear the compliment itself. Listen carefully to what the person is saying and let it sink in.

Return the compliment. If someone gives you a compliment, you can return the favor by giving them one too. It shows that you are paying attention and it helps to lighten the mood.

Remember that accepting compliments is a skill that can be improved over time. The more you practice, the more comfortable and natural it will feel. And don't forget that it's ok to make mistakes, you are human.

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