answer:I agree that most of the reactions are rather counterproductive. It reminds me of Sophie Lancaster, a goth girl who was killed by some dudes who beat the crap out of her for being a goth, and the general response by the goth community was, I would kill those fuckers! I understand the anger and frustration to such things, but it isn’t going to end by being a hypocrite, and the most important part is that kids look up to us as exemplary models on how to deal with these things.