answer:Welcome to ask-public. Assuming you’re even old enough to be on this site… Why would you want to get rid of that kind of attraction? To be (I presume) a young woman with an attraction to a tall, strong, smart guy who likes to read seems kind of ideal. So he’s not in the best of shape. Okay, I get that, but you hung out with him in the gym, so apparently he’s working on that. I don’t see the problem.