I had a girlfriend that I shared a lot with, and she shared a lot with me. And it seemed fine at the time, like I was being open and honest and she was too. But in my current relationship we have not delved into too much deep stuff about each other’s past. We both know the other had one, but why distract from the present? Other than making sure neither of us has a pathology that needs to be resolved, the past is past. To quote Carly Simon: In the name of honesty, in the name of what is fair You always answer my questions But they don’t always answer my prayers And though I know you say that it’s me that you adore Sometimes I wish Often I wish That I never, never, never knew Some of those secrets of yours