Have you lost someone who you wish you had rushed out to see when you heard they were sick?

Have you lost someone who you wish you had rushed out to see when you heard they were sick?
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Yes , a fellow congregant at UU whom I was beginning a friendship with just died of leukemia at 49. I texted and emailed a few times but didn’t go to see her.
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