How do you deal with a friend that may be slightly racist?

How do you deal with a friend that may be slightly racist?
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Gently bring it up to them, if they double down. Drop them. If they realize they were speaking incorrectly and it was a misunderstanding, keep them. Either way it's not your problem anymore.
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