How do I ask a guy out if I am shy and dont know how to talk to new people?

How do I ask a guy out if I am shy and dont know how to talk to new people?
by

1 Answer

Answer :

your solution is to focus on learning how to talk to new people. learn to know what to say and practice to be good at it.
by

Related questions

So I like this guy, but he's uber shy and doesn't pick up on my subtle flirting. What's something I can say to bring him out of his shell to flirt?

Description : So I like this guy, but he's uber shy and doesn't pick up on my subtle flirting. What's something I can say to bring him out of his shell to flirt?

Last Answer : “A little flirt never hurt ya know.”

How do you talk to women when you're shy?

Description : How do you talk to women when you're shy?

Last Answer : just remember: women are people. reflect on that, say it 5 times until it sounds weird, or whatever. maybe this will help you approach "them" differently?

"This is an interactive drama, so don’t be shy to participate." does this sentence make sense?

Description : "This is an interactive drama, so don’t be shy to participate." does this sentence make sense?

Last Answer : Idiomatically, it’s ”...don’t be shy about participating.”

What is the way to introduce myself and make friends when I am shy?

Description : What is the way to introduce myself and make friends when I am shy?

Last Answer : I am also quite shy and am not the type to go up to people and introduce myself. If you can't do it either, I suggest at least smile at people and make yourself look approachable. Make it obvious that you ... , not an anti-social asshole. I find if you can't go up to people, let them come to you.

Am shy and just socialize with fellow boys. What is way to approach girls?

Description : Am shy and just socialize with fellow boys. What is way to approach girls?

Last Answer : What do you say to guys when you socialize with them?

I am shy what should I do to change that?

Description : I am shy what should I do to change that?

Last Answer : Put yourself in slightly uncomfortable situations regularly. Over time, they will be easy situations, and you will be moving on to what would be very uncomfortable at this point.

I don't like to ask personal questions at work unless the person offers to talk about personal stuff is that weird ?

Description : I don't like to ask personal questions at work unless the person offers to talk about personal stuff is that weird ?

Last Answer : answer:No, it's not weird. I feel the same way. As an introvert, I tend to compartmentalize my work life and private life, so I assume others must do the same. I don't often ask people about ... conversations as much as I used to (though I will respond in a friendly manner if somebody seeks me out).

Shy people, when you meet someone new, what would make it easiest to feel comfortable talking to them?

Description : Shy people, when you meet someone new, what would make it easiest to feel comfortable talking to them?

Last Answer : wundayatta I’m not shy at all, so I don’t have an answer. I just wanted to say great question!

Guy stopped talking to me, should I talk to him before he leaves?

Description : Guy stopped talking to me, should I talk to him before he leaves?

Last Answer : No, don’t. let him go. He’s leaving anyway, so any connection you would create would be short and non-fruitful. Move on.

Who is the guy that has the talk show and has many animal guests?

Description : Who is the guy that has the talk show and has many animal guests?

Last Answer : I hope you don’t mean Steve Irwin. He died almost 4 years ago. How recently do you mean?

"Why does this guy talk to me when we're alone, then ignore me if others are around?"?

Description : "Why does this guy talk to me when we're alone, then ignore me if others are around?"?

Last Answer : Breathe. If he can't talk to you when you're both around his friends, then I have to ask, why is it that you like him? I wouldn't want to give so much emotional energy to someone who is nice only when ... keep going. There's a guy out there who you'll like, who likes you and will be open about it.

Ever been stuck on a plane with a nice guy who thinks you like him because you talk to him? What to do?

Description : Ever been stuck on a plane with a nice guy who thinks you like him because you talk to him? What to do?

Last Answer : I don’t see the dilemma unless you thought he was your soul mate too. Is he stalking you? I’m confused

If the guy you like gets random phone calls and goes outside to talk, does that mean he's cheating?

Description : If the guy you like gets random phone calls and goes outside to talk, does that mean he's cheating?

Last Answer : No.. But it means you have serious issues with trust. If you can’t trust the dude on the phone how can you trust him on a “Boys Night Out?”

What differences exist between guy talk and girl talk or between how men speak to each other and how women speak to each other and the way men and women speak to each other?

Description : What differences exist between guy talk and girl talk or between how men speak to each other and how women speak to each other and the way men and women speak to each other?

Last Answer : Yes there are differences and they start as young children. Little girls go play in the doll house talking to each other and developing communication skills. Girls start talking younger than boys as well. ... Men are From Mars and Women are from Venus he covers the communication of men and women.

What can I do about a guy who is interested in me and smiles at me yet runs away whenever he sees me He talks to my friends about me but doens't talk to me he just stares... Any suggestions?

Description : What can I do about a guy who is interested in me and smiles at me yet runs away whenever he sees me He talks to my friends about me but doens't talk to me he just stares... Any suggestions?

Last Answer : I suggest you get a group of friends together and go for Pizza and a movie. Invite him to come along. He sounds shy so this way he can get to know you without any pressure. You can talk with him and later if he is interested ask him someplace for just the two of you.

I'm so confused. I talk to this guy almost everyday [we only text each other]. I really like him so much. He confessed that I'm special yo him and he can't talk to me like he used to talk or flirt with other girls What does that mean Does he like me too?

Description : I'm so confused. I talk to this guy almost everyday [we only text each other]. I really like him so much. He confessed that I'm special yo him and he can't talk to me like he used to talk or flirt with other girls What does that mean Does he like me too?

Last Answer : It sounds like he likes you. Maybe you should be bold and just ask him. Don't waste your time waiting around for him to make a move and don't let him play games with your mind!

How should I make friends in a new school when I was ignored and bullied in my old one and I'm too scared and shy?

Description : How should I make friends in a new school when I was ignored and bullied in my old one and I'm too scared and shy?

Last Answer : Hello and welcome to Fluther. What are your interests? You could join a group that you are interested in. A sports group, a math group, a reading group, the debating team, etc. If your school ... that and by doing interviews or taking pictures you can break the ice and form friendships. Good luck!

Let us consider that the original point is (x,y) and new transformed point is (x’,y’). Further, Shx and Shy are shearing factors in x and y directions. If we perform the y-direction shear relative to x=xref then the transformed point is given by ............

Description : Let us consider that the original point is (x,y) and new transformed point is (x’,y’). Further, Shx and Shy are shearing factors in x and y directions. If we perform the y-direction shear relative to x=xref then the transformed point is given by ............ 

Last Answer : (C) x’ = x y’ = Shy(x - xref) + y

Anyone like shy people?

Description : Anyone like shy people?

Last Answer : Very much. More than the highly outgoing ones, in fact. Those folks are great as “entertainers” in some venues (like parties, for example, or other social groups), but quiet folks make the best friends, I’ve found.

Many Outgoing people are afraid to be different, does it mean Shy guys can be braver?

Description : Many Outgoing people are afraid to be different, does it mean Shy guys can be braver?

Last Answer : That is wonderful. I hope you feel better. Now get out there and sing and dance and quit pretending you’re so dang shy.

Shy people, why so shy?

Description : Shy people, why so shy?

Last Answer : Hey shy people, I love you! Stay shy ❤️

Do you feel shy about asking for help?

Description : Do you feel shy about asking for help?

Last Answer : Embarrassment from not being able to handle it myself.

I feel too shy to go to the gym alone?

Description : I feel too shy to go to the gym alone?

Last Answer : Get a trainer at the gym to explain and help you. They are there to do that and see beginners all the time. It may cost a little more but is worth it. The equipment needs to be explained and ... on different day visits. You can start off by just walking in good shoes for an hour, cheap and easy.

Why would women shy away from a prenup?

Description : Why would women shy away from a prenup?

Last Answer : answer:A prenup is making a prima facie assumption that the couple is going to divorce – even before they have ever married. What a depressing attitude.

Are you a shy or outgoing person?‎?

Description : Are you a shy or outgoing person?‎?

Last Answer : I am very shy and introverted. I can’t go to parties or group functions without stressing out about all the people there.

Do you shy away from answering questions that begin "What's the best..."?

Description : Do you shy away from answering questions that begin "What's the best..."?

Last Answer : I figure they’re just looking for opinions, not fact. They likely just want to know which ‘whatever’ we consider the best, so I’m okay with attempting an answer (unless I have zero clue about the item they’re asking about.)

Are you or do you know anyone who’s “pee shy”?

Description : Are you or do you know anyone who’s “pee shy”?

Last Answer : Haha. I hate hearing other people pee. XD

My mixed breed puppy, Lizzie, is about 10 days shy of 5 months. Would I know if her ears were going to point up by now or is it too soon to tell?

Description : My mixed breed puppy, Lizzie, is about 10 days shy of 5 months. Would I know if her ears were going to point up by now or is it too soon to tell?

Last Answer : Nope, she’s definitely going to be droop eared.

Do guys like shy girls?

Description : Do guys like shy girls?

Last Answer : Some guys do, some guys don’t.

How do you tell if someone is being snobbish because they're really arrogant or they're just shy?

Description : How do you tell if someone is being snobbish because they're really arrogant or they're just shy?

Last Answer : You can NOT unless you get to know them. My daughter is extremely shy and I can’t tell you how many times neighbors in my building thought she was arrogant until they got to know her.

Do Guys not like quiet shy girls?

Description : Do Guys not like quiet shy girls?

Last Answer : I go bonkers for shy girls. no idea why.

Tips for a painfully shy child?

Description : Tips for a painfully shy child?

Last Answer : You need to talk to a pro. Any child psychologists on staff or available for a consult? His behavior sounds more troubling than just being shy. Poor little guy...and I assume that you have a take on his home situation..he didn't get that way in a vacuum. Good luck.

I have a friend taking the GMAT. Any words on advice if he's particularly shy about math?

Description : I have a friend taking the GMAT. Any words on advice if he's particularly shy about math?

Last Answer : The GMAT is adaptive now, and that can really throw people off if they aren’t prepared for it. Studying is always important, but I’d recommend also taking practice tests in the adaptive format, if possible.

Are there any females who are into shy guys?

Description : Are there any females who are into shy guys?

Last Answer : They are called women. If you are gonna call guys guys, don't call women females

Were you shy as a child, yet are much less shy as an adult?

Description : Were you shy as a child, yet are much less shy as an adult?

Last Answer : I was shy as a child, and I'm still shy as an adult, but I've constantly made an effort to overcome it, so perhaps I no longer seem as shy as I really am. If you are in business, ... , you have keep forcing yourself to reach out to other people. It doesn't mean you still are fundamentally shy.

What do you call someone who is quiet and shy, but laughs or smiles a lot?

Description : What do you call someone who is quiet and shy, but laughs or smiles a lot?

Last Answer : [deleted]

Men of - If you’ve had shy bladder syndrome, how’d you overcome it?

Description : Men of - If you’ve had shy bladder syndrome, how’d you overcome it?

Last Answer : Take a deep breath and pee on the exhale, you’re more relaxed. And no one is actually looking at your dick, let alone judging you for it. Whip out that 2inch punisher and go for it my dude

What do you call someone who is quiet and shy, but laughs or smiles a lot?

Description : What do you call someone who is quiet and shy, but laughs or smiles a lot?

Last Answer : [deleted]

Men of - If you’ve had shy bladder syndrome, how’d you overcome it?

Description : Men of - If you’ve had shy bladder syndrome, how’d you overcome it?

Last Answer : Take a deep breath and pee on the exhale, you’re more relaxed. And no one is actually looking at your dick, let alone judging you for it. Whip out that 2inch punisher and go for it my dude

What do you call someone who is quiet and shy, but laughs or smiles a lot?

Description : What do you call someone who is quiet and shy, but laughs or smiles a lot?

Last Answer : [deleted]

Men of - If you’ve had shy bladder syndrome, how’d you overcome it?

Description : Men of - If you’ve had shy bladder syndrome, how’d you overcome it?

Last Answer : Take a deep breath and pee on the exhale, you’re more relaxed. And no one is actually looking at your dick, let alone judging you for it. Whip out that 2inch punisher and go for it my dude

What do you call someone who is quiet and shy, but laughs or smiles a lot?

Description : What do you call someone who is quiet and shy, but laughs or smiles a lot?

Last Answer : [deleted]

Men of - If you’ve had shy bladder syndrome, how’d you overcome it?

Description : Men of - If you’ve had shy bladder syndrome, how’d you overcome it?

Last Answer : Take a deep breath and pee on the exhale, you’re more relaxed. And no one is actually looking at your dick, let alone judging you for it. Whip out that 2inch punisher and go for it my dude

What do you call someone who is quiet and shy, but laughs or smiles a lot?

Description : What do you call someone who is quiet and shy, but laughs or smiles a lot?

Last Answer : [deleted]

What do you call someone who is quiet and shy, but laughs or smiles a lot?

Description : What do you call someone who is quiet and shy, but laughs or smiles a lot?

Last Answer : [deleted]

Men of - If you’ve had shy bladder syndrome, how’d you overcome it?

Description : Men of - If you’ve had shy bladder syndrome, how’d you overcome it?

Last Answer : Take a deep breath and pee on the exhale, you’re more relaxed. And no one is actually looking at your dick, let alone judging you for it. Whip out that 2inch punisher and go for it my dude

What do you call someone who is quiet and shy, but laughs or smiles a lot?

Description : What do you call someone who is quiet and shy, but laughs or smiles a lot?

Last Answer : [deleted]

Men of - If you’ve had shy bladder syndrome, how’d you overcome it?

Description : Men of - If you’ve had shy bladder syndrome, how’d you overcome it?

Last Answer : Take a deep breath and pee on the exhale, you’re more relaxed. And no one is actually looking at your dick, let alone judging you for it. Whip out that 2inch punisher and go for it my dude

Men of - If you’ve had shy bladder syndrome, how’d you overcome it?

Description : Men of - If you’ve had shy bladder syndrome, how’d you overcome it?

Last Answer : Take a deep breath and pee on the exhale, you’re more relaxed. And no one is actually looking at your dick, let alone judging you for it. Whip out that 2inch punisher and go for it my dude

Men of - If you’ve had shy bladder syndrome, how’d you overcome it?

Description : Men of - If you’ve had shy bladder syndrome, how’d you overcome it?

Last Answer : Take a deep breath and pee on the exhale, you’re more relaxed. And no one is actually looking at your dick, let alone judging you for it. Whip out that 2inch punisher and go for it my dude