I don’t mean to be harsh, but . . . if your friend chooses to associate with shallow, tasteless, insensitive people, I think she should expect to pay the price of their friendship. What would I do? I would not have anything to do with it. But I would not have been in her position in the first place. I hope that you as her much wiser friend will have some sane influence on her, but for the present it might be a lost cause, to judge from the fact that she is even thinking about doing this.