answer:So far, my biggest step was moving away from home at 18 and living on my own. I moved to a city about 6 hours away from my parent’s and I didn’t know anyone. I only got homesick once, on the 2nd night of being there. I cried the whole night. I was terrified. Never happened again after that though. It was the best decision ever. Btw, good luck to you. :)