Have you ever been holding a grudge for a long time then you suddenly realize it's gone?

Have you ever been holding a grudge for a long time then you suddenly realize it's gone?
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answer:Very cool! It’s a sign of your evolving consciousness! No room to hold grudges…if someone treats you poorly more than once it is just time to let them go. Good for you, feels great doesn’t it! I always try to remember not to take things ‘personally’...meaning, that if someone is a jerk they are most likely a jerk to others too! lol
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