Go to a specialty card shop and look. There are some really good ones out there. Also if you know the person you can tell them something you say often to each other. Like a catch phrase. Or my very favorite is to buy a card and put one line through the reverant and feel good printed line and then to draw, write, or tape on a piece (writing or picture) from another card on to the page just below the cross out. It is great fun and makes me laugh too. It is also fun for the kids to do.