I feel stuck in a life not of my choosing, advice please?

I feel stuck in a life not of my choosing, advice please?
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I guess your only hope is to do what you want and “show them” that you can be successful. They might not like it at first, but they can’t argue with success. As far as your problem with conflict – you are either going to have to endure a conflict or cave and be ruled by your parents your whole life. Some conflicts can’t be avoided, as unpleasant as they are.
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