answer:I need to give up someone who has been on my mind for something on seven months now…and I don’t know if I can do it. This person has influenced many of my decisions in that time, and probably without realizing he was doing it….I was coming away from “losing” someone significant in my life at the time, and this person took over my heart by filling their shoes. They filled the void in my life, and became my reason for doing so much positive in my life. Now that I know I need to let him go, I am worried about what negative impacts this might have on me. This is the problem with letting others influence your decisions, even if they are healthy, positive decisions. Once that person is no longer in your life, the motivation for maintaining these good life choices can fade…and where does that leave you? Directionless, lonely, and questioning what you really want out of life…