If I feel like I've pretty much asked every question about my life right now and worked though most of it, is it rude to leave without saying goodbye to fluther?

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I’m glad you are finally free from your inner demon. It’s your choice to stay or leave, no one has any power on you in that matter. No one forces you to say goodbye either. But it’s always warm to know that a jelly deeply appreciates the community’s help and openly thanks us for our support. You have also impressed me by turning from a pissy man who liked to create one account each hour to cause trouble to a sensible person who appreciated any attempt of genuine help in a short time. You learn from your experience and you try to improve yourself, which is something people expect from a good member. I know you aren’t here to read this, but I’m speaking on behalf of the community And if you ever come back, either by lurking or with another account, you will be able to see that the community doesn’t hate you at all after what you have done in the past and is willing to welcome you again when you finally learn to be a decent person. I hope that from now on you will free yourself from your ex’s toxicity and grow to be a better man, as well as raise your son to be a great human being.

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