I'm scared to start working, but I really want to. What can I do about this?

I'm scared to start working, but I really want to. What can I do about this?
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answer:I am confused at exactly what you are afraid of. It appears you are lacking in self-confidence. There is nothing I can tell you that make you feel any better about yourself, other than look in a mirror and tell youself, “I can do this”. We all make mistakes in life. I would dare to guess that at least 40% of the population was a mistake, but thats okay. What is your age? I ask this because my future answer will depend on it.
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