answer:So, no one can make you eat. Stop eating pastries and sweets. If he brings you something like that again, just say,“No thank you, I am going to eat something healthy.” You have been overeating apparently for six months, it may take a while to drop the weight, but you need to eat proteins and vegetables and fresh fruits, and not eat pastries and breads and muffins or cakes, and no potatoes or rice. No fast food! You need to cut way back on your calories. You can do it! I’ve lost 35 lbs since ********* by giving up sugar, sweets, and things that get metabolized into sugar. But be strong with your friend, and tell him if he really cares he will bring you healthy snacks.