What do I do? I think Ive fallen for my close friend?

What do I do? I think Ive fallen for my close friend?
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First off, this is perfectly normal, and you have nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about. I would say just be honest and straight forward with her, but I know how difficult that can be.
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