Men: Have you ever left your family for a weekend for a trip with your best buds?

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Many times, although granted, it’s harder with a 1 year old. Not sure how to advise you as I don’t know your partner obviously. I just do it. Sometimes I pay for it later, sometimes I don’t. But you should go.

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