answer:Everyone needs some alone time. And online friendships are a great way to keep in touch. They aren’t competing interests. I’m naturally introverted, with a tiny circle of friends. I’m single and don’t have kids. I don’t like people knocking on my door, either. The best strategy for me has been taking classes and volunteering. If I commit to a weekly guitar class or a shift at the food bank, I will go. And I’m always glad I went.