What has been your experience with housemates or roommates as an adult?

What has been your experience with housemates or roommates as an adult?
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answer:It can vary greatly. I’m 36 and my current situation is the first time I have not had roommates. Some have turned out to be great friends and I have called the cops on others. Talk about what you expect and listen to what they expect. Since you are already friends I wouldn’t be all that concerned. Nothing a bottle of **** and honesty can’t fix.
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