How do you deal with a crazy ex without hurting their feelings?

How do you deal with a crazy ex without hurting their feelings?
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Was it a loud and clear break-up or did you leave things hanging in mid-air? Such issues should be dealt with firmly, maturely and directly to the point without leaving space for doubts. If you have not done that, then make it clear and cut ALL ties. No occasional calls if the relationship is off!
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