Am I the only one who thinks hurting someone's feelings is wrong?

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blueberry_kid Little scared people try to tear someone down to make themselves feel better about their own inadequacies (sp). It’s usually weak people that do that. Be strong and they’ll move on. Is there someone you can talk to about this?

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