answer:I will always worry more about my children, but I try to teach them to be mindful rather than frightened. Going to Europe, yes, hiking with a friend in a Taliban controlled region, no. 6 months after 9/11 I cancelled the trip to take my kids to Disneyland because I was afraid of flying with them to what I had heard might be a terrorist target. Instead we visited some friends in NJ and one of them was seriously injured in a car accident. My child is fine, but the irony didn’t escape me.