answer:As many have said before: Start eating healthy, stop with sodas and processed foods. Start exercising, stop spending all your time lying down and watching videos and surfing the net. Get a job, any job, but start working. Get out in nature in your spare time. Get involved in some kind of volunteer service work to get your mind off your self an get involved with your community. Do all that and you will find meaning in your life and find friendships in unexpected places. And that will establish you. You are already “settled down’; if you settle anymore you might start growing roots and never move.