Do you ever think about friends and relatives who passed away?

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answer:Sure. I remember them. Is my mom looking down on me from heaven? Wouldn’t that be nice. Hi, Mom! That would be nice right up until I find myself in bed with a woman. Then it would be disconcerting. Do you mind, Mom? I read that there are heaven believers that suffer from this. Anyway, yeah, I remember my friends and family fondly. I think about where we’d all be if they’d lived. These are pleasant moments for me. But that’s about it.

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