josie: “Over politics.” What if what you describe as “politics” is literally life and death to others? What if visiting people who want you and your loved ones to have no autonomy of your body, don’t feel that you have a right to live, want to lock up your neighbors and coworkers, are working hard to make sure you and your kids have no future worth living for, and are set on destroying the planet is an unhealthy thing? What you are describing as “sick” seems to fall under healthy self-care in many scenarios.