I had a man ask me out once who declared at the end of our outing he would not be dating me, because he couldn’t date a woman with bigger biceps than him. I was not a large woman, 63 inches tall, 130 pounds, but I was cut. I had lats I could flare, and if I flexed my delts men would fall off their chairs. I was somewhat disappointed, because I was liking him until then, but if he was threatened by my muscle tone, then he was not for me. I never found the man for me. Not one was secure enough to let me be me, and love me for it. Women should not be made to feel insecure about outsizing their men, but it regularly ends that way.