Do you have a visiting relative who drives you nuts who you don't wish to see for years?

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You gave her $400. That’s quite a reward for her behavior. You just have to say “No,” man. In fact, I’d almost suggest a PFA, or protection from harassment, at least. Take a stand. At this point she has absolutely NO reason to change.

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