Planning a wedding is very stressful, especially if you want a large wedding with a sit-down dinner. The planning stage, making sure everything has been done and getting the invitations out on time all take a skilled person who can organize and accomplish these tasks. One great way I learned to accomplish all this was through delegation. Don't try to do it all on your own. Make a list of what needs to be done. Break the list down into easy tasks that a single person could accomplish for you. Make sure the task that you ask a person to do won't interfere with your plans and cause an issue in the end. Now meet with both of your families. Have a dinner to present this to them. The family is the best way to get things done. Ask them for their help. Tell them about the lists and what needs to be done. Explain that they can easily complete these tasks to help out. They will be so happy to help you plan your wedding. Furthermore, this will help bring you closer to his family in the end. Tell people to text you anytime if they can't decide on the color or what items you'd like. In the end, each person plays a small role in your wedding and your stress levels go way down. You are able to accomplish everything that needs to be done. In the end, your wedding is a beautiful day.