There are many frustrations before, during and after the wedding. Planning everything is stressful and might take a toll on the couple. For example, making sure everything is confirmed ,that the weather will be good , that the food will be ready and warm. When you have a big party money becomes a big issue as well as dealing with multiple opinions or the lack of interest of the bride/groom. But you need to choose between having a special moment for you or for the "audience" to see your wedding. Focus on what really mattersand remember less is better. Why make such a Wonderful day a pain?