How do you make peace with someone who is mad at your existance?

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This is not such an easy task and maybe it will never happen. In the end, you might just have to accept the fact that this person does not like you and will stay mad at you forever. In the end, it might be up to you to accept this fact and move on with your life and just let it go. You can do yourself more harm than good dwelling on these issues. Just keep in mind that not everyone will like you and be your friend. Keep the friends you have close and do them no harm. they will stay your friend for a long time to come. If you feel like you need to make amends with this person try sending them a letter in the mail. All that they can do is rip it up and throw it away or they can answer you back.

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