I can only answer for family members who have had. My sister had two children when she was 18, one just after her birthday, and the other just before her next birthday. She gave them both up for adoption. She then had one who was taken away from her before his first birthday. She kept the next two and two more she had aborted. As you can see this is not your typical woman. She still misses the ones she did not keep, aborted and adopted, and she did a very poor job with the others. My son’s girlfriend had an abortion, against his will, and when he looks at the two son’s he and his wife have, he still misses that little unknown one. A survey by an advice columnist once showed results that the majority of respondents are sorry they had children at all! No matter what choice a person makes, they will always wonder about the path not taken.