Can you appreciate your "own" beauty?

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I don’t agree that it’s hard for most beautiful women. How would you REALLY know? Based upon what the woman publicly says? That’s no proof. Most women don’t shout “Don’t hate me because I’m beautiful”. But I think beautiful women who don’t see their beauty are SELECTIVELY ATTENDING to their physical flaws (or their perceived flaws). EVERY person has flaws. Some people focus on those FLAWS instead of their beauty.

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