Should we do our best to make it harder to compare ourselves?

1 Answer

Answer :

What you are proposing is basically ignorance. Ignorance in general never makes things better. It is not the fault of data that insecure people are insecure, it’s the fact that the insecure person interprets the data in a way that reinforces the notion of themselves they hold. Even if we got rid of all numbers and comparison methods, insecure people would still feel insecure about themselves, they would just use a different metric, such as looks, or perceived mental abilities, or charisma, or whatever their minds feel is appropriate to compare and dismiss themselves with. There are far more effective ways to reduce insecurity, or extending further to school shootings, than by obscuring metrics. Such as by having a well run counseling program, an array of after school activities, discouragement of bullying, and simply better reporting on who the “troubled” students are so that they can be watched a bit more closely. Similarly, there are way more ways for a person to be alienated beyond just grades or other metric comparisons. We all know how high school was a popularity contest (at least it was in my experience), and none of that was fueled by grades or metrics, it’s all social skill development, testing the bounds of interactions, finding out what a friend exactly is, and all that other stuff they cover on Degrassi. As many say, the primary point of schooling is not to learn academics but to learn social skills and start figuring out how the world works. Well I also think the primary purpose of school is to relieve adults of the burden of their kids, allowing adults to pursue their career and secure stability for the family. In my mind, uncertainty is never good, let alone desirable in any way. Certainty and knowledge are valued over uncertainty and speculation, even if the knowledge isn’t what I want to hear. There will always be insecure and secure people in the world. I figure it’s a better approach to treat the underlying issues of why people are insecure rather than taking down one facet (data) insecure people use to judge themselves.

Related questions

Description : If society ever reached a point where all your wants and needs were provided by automation what would we do with ourselves on our time here on Earth?

Last Answer : Leisure studies will be in high demand in university.

Description : Do we judge ourselves by the content of our fantasies?

Last Answer : hominid: Your Q makes perfect sense to me, I’ll have to think a bit before answering. Your caffeine level was up to the task. :-)

Description : Now that we charactarized ourselves, let us do the same to our fellow Jellies (with rules).

Last Answer : answer:@rebbel – Dutch Pirate who keel hauls anyone who confuses his title with Dutch Oven Bring it.

Description : When we protect our children from certain kinds of knowledge, are we protecting their psychological health, or are we protecting ourselves from dealing with uncomfortable subects?

Last Answer : answer:One must go with the gut feel on this one. The TV has its ratings scheme but most parents by default know their kids best. Err on the safe side I guess. If a parent is uncertain about ... follow I guess. Just the ability to adapt to present situations in your kid's life and growth process.

Description : So total worst case scenario, we off all humans and animals in our race to outdo ourselves. Do you think plants will survive?

Last Answer : answer:The earth will “re-new”. It is not save the planet, it is save the human.

Description : Why do we hear ourselves differently to how our voices actually sound?

Last Answer : Think about where your ears are located, and about conducted sound.

Description : Why do we tend to identify ourselves by our consumption?

Last Answer : It is a measure of how much money they have, not their value.

Description : Are we just fooling ourselves with these questions and avoiding the eventual loss of our economic sytem due to oil running out?

Last Answer : People have been predicting imminent peak oil for the past 75 years. Ever hear the story of the boy who cried wolf?

Description : A trained career counsellor can help us (1) do self-analysis, so that we are honest with ourselves. (2) decide whether to be a florist, teacher, counsellor doctor, or sales executive, ... that will help us use our abilities, because a trained professional can help us prioritize and choose

Last Answer : (4) identity different professions that will help us use our abilities, because a trained professional can help us prioritize and choose the option that is most viable for us.

Description : This passage may be summarized as (1) In career planning, it is important to involve oneself in cultural/sports activities as much as working hard or acquiring new skills.' (2) Before ... A good career choice results when you follow traditional professions and move along a well-planned path.

Last Answer : (2) ‘Before making a career choice, one should learn to prioritize career options and use one's personality, interests, abilities, aspirations, strengths and weaknesses to plan and decide the most viable option

Description : Why do we consider ourselves highest form of animal?

Last Answer : Because we are top of the food chain

Description : Why is it difficult to take care of ourselves?

Last Answer : I read your details – but I am somewhere else entirely. I am independant, a survivor type with 9 lives; I can live in the jungle, in the city in the country. My children can to.

Description : What makes some of us unable to stand up for ourselves?

Last Answer : o.k. you had a fight this morning I'm going to tell you what my dad told me a few years ago 1. If you ever get a girl pregnant, pack up and leave, you'll be on your own 2. if that ever ... mad at each other, it doesn't matter what the argument was about, just don't go to bed mad at each other

Description : Can you make a list of titles that we can call ourselves?

Last Answer : You could call yourself God.

Description : Why do we try to make a living for ourselves?

Last Answer : Most of us have very strong “not dying” instincts and that takes some work. Maybe nothing has a “point” in the grand scheme of things but we still don’t want to suffer.

Description : Immigrants/expats/new arrivals/people! Whatever we use to refer to ourselves… What are the pros and cons of living in the country you find yourself in?

Last Answer : It’s so cold my hair snaps off if it’s wet outside

Description : Can we delete ourselves?

Last Answer : Yes, someone can disable their own account by going to My Account > Delete your account (which would bring them here).

Description : Why did these republicans think we women needed, or wanted, their support to arm ourselves for defense?

Last Answer : Isn’t that always the way???

Description : What would happen if we fed ourselves on light, like plants?

Last Answer : If we could solve the mystery of photosynthesis, all energy needs on the planet would instantly be solved.

Description : Why do we sometimes see ourselves as ugly?

Last Answer : answer:Act II, Scene 2, Hamlet: Hamlet: ”...there is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so…” It’s your subjective perception of an image in a mirror.

Description : If we're hard-wired to assess every stranger for threat level, what are we asking ourselves?

Last Answer : answer:I exercise every morning by power walking 2 miles. This is before sunrise. I know my senses are heightened when I'm on the street and see another person. It's dark, so I spend some time ... to greet the person. We're friendly here, so speaking to strangers in the wee hours is not uncommon.

Description : Why do we humans like to exalt ourselves above all other animals as if we are better?

Last Answer : Hubris.

Description : Upon extraterrestrial contact with a technologically superior race, we discover they value and promote concepts that challenge human norms. Would we judge them as bad, or convert ourselves to their way of being?

Last Answer : answer:Why would they kill handicapped children at birth, when they have the ability to erase/prevent any sort of birth defect with ease? In any case, you can be guaranteed that such conditions ... being allowed to own anything, even the ruling political and corporate elite would not agree to this.

Description : How much do you think it would cost to build this house if we could do much of the work ourselves?

Last Answer : Given the experience your hubby and son have, added to your (@Dutchess_III) willingness to add your sweat equity , I think you should be able to save a bundle over having the home built to be move-in ready ... will take, but I think you should be able to get an idea of the savings by the salaries.

Description : Why do we talk out loud to ourselves?

Last Answer : I usually don’t, but I have a hearing impairment so, no need!

Description : If we Blame the Economy, isn't that a bit of a cop-out? Aren't we really blaming ourselves?

Last Answer : If you want to accept the blame for all the ills within the US including the economy by all means be my guest. But I'm not going to join you. I have been the unwilling participant in a great many ... an unconscious bias we have. We need to get REAL. I will now relinguish the pulpit to someone else.

Description : Are we trapped in/about to trap ourselves in the matrix?

Last Answer : It probably won't surprise many of you that this ideology constantly had me thinking back to some of the ideas inherent in Inception. Particularly prominent was the image of those who could no longer ... world was a truer reality than our own. Perhaps Inception was written with this idea in mind?

Description : How can we expect Aliens to land, and to get along with them, when we cannot even get along with ourselves?

Last Answer : answer:I think it’s safe to say the human response will be to shoot first and ask questions of whatever you can find afterward, all in the name of national security. I do think it’s nice that one of your neighbors is friendly, though, even while in the middle of a fight.

Description : How can we defend ourselves against the new social sites bot hackers?

Last Answer : I’m glad I have Norton 360 virus protection then. It has keystroke protection so hackers can’t tell what numbers or letters I’m entering when I’m typing. How to combat the problem other than virus protection programs? I really don’t know.

Description : Would it be in the interest of beings from an advanced alien civilization to save us from ourselves? Or would this "leg up" deprive us of crucial lessons we need in order to become truly civilized?

Last Answer : It would be in our interest to let you destroy yourselves. You have a long history of destroying your environment and slaughtering members of your own species en masse. When/if you acquire ... at least isolate your solar system until you learn to behave yourselves. Or until you destroy yourselves.

Description : Mexico: Will we find ourselves at war with Mexico in a few years?

Last Answer : I seriously doubt that.

Description : In improving human capabilities, should we deny ourselves free choice?

Last Answer : If you let people use any technique, then all athletes would have a choice, and wouldn't be punished for their choice. They have the choice, they do it all the time. As long as it does not harm ... it. That prevention can be good. That is why we vote. That is why the hands of time go slowly.

Description : Do we allow ourselves to get old in the hope that someone somewhere will find the secret to eternal life?

Last Answer : It’s all part of the process. It’s not a pleasant prospect but there is value in life for the elderly. We allow ourselves to get old because there’s still things worth living for.

Description : Why can't we tickle ourselves?

Last Answer : I tickle myself. But that’s x-rated. I also tickle my funny bone – and I walk down the hallways where I work laughing my ass off over something I did or said. I’m an idiot, really. But I make myself laugh at my own stupidity.

Description : Which Irish political parties name translates as we ourselves?

Last Answer : Sein Fein

Description : I would be especially interested in those who are raising a small baby or a child or children alone. How is your day going? Do you have help or do you need energy in everything? My husband and I ... old. Very sore, we spend a lot of night. There are no grandparents anymore, not even my girlfriends.

Last Answer : The situation was similar in Hungary, only my couple stepped down a week after the baby was born. I was stupid too, because I could have known he wasn't a father type. We live in an apartment in Pest. I can ... relax too (don't do your chores) or read, take a hot bath, or do anything you love ...

Description : We can come to think of ourselves funny because people laugh at the things we say.

Last Answer : Give your personal response : We can come to think of ourselves funny because people laugh at the things we say.

Description : How do we protect ourselves when we eat bacteria?

Last Answer : Need answer

Description : Which statement is not said by an Australian? (A) We are more inclined to think about how to amuse ourselves than how to work. (B) Australia is a synthesis of Britain and America. (C) The ... with the American Stars and Stripes. (D) The 2000 Sydney Olympic Games are the best games ever.  

Last Answer : (D) “The 2000 Sydney Olympic Games are the best games ever.” 

Description : Which Irish political parties name translates as we ourselves

Last Answer : Sein Fein

Description : Does having a partner make life easier or harder?

Last Answer : It totally depends on the partner and the relationship.

Description : Do you think happiness is harder to achieve as our lives get more complicated?

Last Answer : For some people it’s a case of “can’t see the woods, for the trees” My grandma used to say that, okay, she drank a bit, what of it?

Description : What is harder than people realize?

Last Answer : Also, programming! I think all the movies that portray 15 year old hackers are damaging to the reputation of the field. I notice that people think that building or maintaining a website, or hacking, ... well can be halfway impossible if you can't track the author down to question them about it.

Description : Would you go back to an amazing [man] knowing that you might have a harder break-up in the future?

Last Answer : I would let that be that, and just write an ultimate song about it.

Description : How do you differentiate between signs that you need to try harder and signs that you should just let it go?

Last Answer : answer:It'd hard to tell without knowing what the specific signs are. But if it is a relationship, it depends on your feelings, your partner's feelings, and what has happened (has your partner ... you analyze your ability to keep going and your commitment to the goal. Can you provide more details?

Description : Why does everything seem harder at night?

Last Answer : I guess darkness is just associated with bad things. Horror movies generally don't take place in broad daylight. At the end of the day, your body is tired and worn out so things that ... should be, their body generally freaks out and the other senses, such as hearing, are actually diminished.

Description : Which is harder life or death?

Last Answer : Using commas so that the question is clear.

Description : In a planet with 7 billion people, how can it be possible to know all the person like ourselves?

Last Answer : Why would someone even have it as a goal to know all the people like ourselves? Seems impossible, impractical and perhaps even undesirable or upsetting, as there's only so much time and attention I ... and forming friendships much more likely. Also the choice of place and how we spend our time.

Description : If friendly advanced aliens land at the UN, and ask us to tell them a little about ourselves...

Last Answer : I would tell them the same thing I tell my kids: The shit on television isn’t real.

Description : Is there any way to fix this computer problem ourselves?

Last Answer : answer:Norton – avoid at ALL costs Start in safe mode, uninstall Norton and download and install a decent free anti-virus (Microsoft Security Essentials is good if your copy of Windows is kosher)