The more kids you have the less time you have to supervise every moment of each child’s time. It happened with me. I was so careful about what my baby ate, etc. By the third kid, as long as it didn’t kill ‘em, it was OK. In other words, I had a wake up call, and relaxed. I have five children in all; the last were twins. With infant twins and a total of 5 children 9 and under, it was more about survival than anything else. Literally. And that lasted for years.