answer:I ditto the toxic confrontation thing, yelling at someone you love, threats, name calling, loud shouting when they are just a foot or two or three away. I don’t like to be treated this way, I don’t want to treat someone I love that way. This includes friends, family, associates. But I have the ability to do this yelling/arguing, and I will to protect from a threatening person if necessary. There was so much yelling when I was growing up, I vowed when I was 18 and moved out, I would not have any more of it, verbal or physical abuse in my life. I can’t be around people who do this. So no, I don’t thrive in that, it kills me. That behavior and cigarette smoke are deal breakers to me. Disagreements are acceptable. I want the win-win.