answer:I’ve never been a nanny, but I love children. For this one, turn to the girls. Put together a little questionaire and let them ‘think on it’. Then, center your activities around what you glean from their answers. One key that I find essential, is letting them feel as if they have a voice in all (almost) choices. That steers them positively for the real world. In a few short years, they’ll be making them without guidance.