Is this emotional abuse?

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I think it is emotional abuse and absolutely wrong for a parent to try to turn the children against the other parent. A parent should love his/her children more than they hate their spouse or ex-spouse. Eventually the child will figure out who the real bad guy is, the person doing the bad mouthing.

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